Our moving date is Feb 26. Yesterday we began packing in earnest. I rarely take the Monday holidays off work, but I was able to this time. Surveying the situation felt overwhelming, until two wonderful helpers came over and started putting books and record albums into boxes.
Their energy gave us energy, and between the four of us, we packed over 35 boxes! Today I am back to ministry work, but next week I will be taking unused vacation days from February 23rd to March 2nd in order to do the final packing push. Other folks have offered to help us during the three day packing spree before the movers arrive.
This help is such a marvelous thing! There are so many moments when we feel overwhelmed by the weight of all we have to box up and carry to a new home. We did a fair amount of sorting and recycling and giving away, but at a certain point–and I think we have reached it–we just have to put things in boxes and not worry about the de-cluttering project until we arrive at our new place. We will have a few weeks overlap, so we can leave some things here that we want to go through more carefully, or give away.
Meanwhile, at the new place, Margy has been painting the closets and cupboards, so that they’ll be ready for us to fill with our clothes and dishes. (She took this picture after her work on one closet.)
AND we still have more radon mitigation work to do in our old basement. The tests came back too high, so we renegotiated with the buyers, and we are paying an air quality company to come this week to expand the current radon mitigation system.
Our realtor also made an important discovery. Our boiler has a barometric damper, and he noticed it was in the wide open position, even when the boiler wasn’t running. This means it would have been constantly drawing air from the basement up into the chimney, creating negative pressure that could literally be sucking radon into the space. He also noticed that the weights were positioned incorrectly for the type of damper, so we shifted the weights, and adjusted them so that it closes when the furnace is off and opens a small amount when it is on. At some point, we may have someone come out to calibrate it more exactly, but for now, we hope this will help with radon mitigation. We have heard that the buyers are planning to replace the heating system, so it doesn’t make sense to put a lot into it now. It is a bit of a catch-22. If we can’t get the radon levels down to acceptable numbers, the sale of the house won’t go through. So, fingers crossed.
A colleague who has moved a lot suggested I might think of moving as a spiritual practice. There are so many ways that this makes sense. There is so much outside of our control. And yet there is so much work that we have to do to make it happen. This balancing act between vulnerability and effort is such a metaphor for all of what is important in life.
I come back to Gratitude for the helpers who enter our lives, and enable us to keep on this journey. Some of the helpers are those we enlist professionally for a fee. But most are kindhearted souls who we are privileged to know, who make such a difference.